So this seems like a good place to ask questions like this. I have a friend who has a sort of shoddy home life and it's making them feel out of control. They appear to be subconsciously reacting to this by acting sort of controlling towards me and other friends who regularly communicate with them. Now this is understandable but it also it a bit draining of energy. Does anyone here have any advice on how to explain to them how their behavior is frustrating without them returning to talking about how they feel out of control? And am I being a terrible friend for even questioning giving all my energy towards this? Thanks, y'all from the little I've read from here seem nice.