I want to understand antisocial personality disorder. I have an extreme avoidance of people with personality disorders (namely BPD and NPD) because of a prior abuse history. However. My fiancee has been diagnosed with AsPD and I want to understand instead of run away. He would always tell me "I'm a sociopath" and it always came off as super like. Edgelord. And the negative connotations of that sort of thing scared me. I suggested that perhaps he had AsPD instead, not knowing they were the same thing. I am faced with the choice of being ignorant out of fear, and learning what can I can do to make this easier for me. I want to learn. Help?