Okay, we need to discuss what the chats are meant for and what the rules in each are, because the lack of defined rules is making people upset and hurt each other, and I am for one tired of watching that happen when we could do something about it and head most of these off. The main thing is that what is main meant for? What are the things that are okay to discuss and what are not? What are the rules if someone feels upset and triggered by a certain topic? How much veto power do they have? How do we handle meltdowns when they happen (and they have been happening)? *** My personal problem with not being able to discuss stuff in main is that I don't want to go to After Dark since people discussing their past abuse and such can be fairly unpleasant to me. So, if every interesting topic gets shunted off to there, that also sucks. I put this on the forum because it needs to be discussed and I would please ask people not to take it personally that we need to discuss it.