I took a break from updating this thread for a while and also ramped down on my chatting for a while. I had another date with someone planned, but they decided there wasn't a click after all and so they cancelled and that put me off for a bit. I did get back into it, and I have been chatting with a decent guy for a while and I have another date tomorrow. He seems quite nice, and doesn't appear to be put off by the fact that I am inexperienced. Excited, but also a bit scared and nervous.