hey guys. i’m not sure how to word this, but my identity is often associated with being uhh, a bully? but it’s important to me for what it means. should i just... try to encourage radical acceptance and slow down, stop, think, integration etc concepts ? i’m not dishonest and i try to be agreeable, so if others judge me as something i usually accept it. but as i follow through with their intentions for me, i find that it has no endgame.