My room is a mess. Like, I should probably me on one of those shows where they chuck all your shit onto the front lawn and make you choose between keeping, tossing, and donating it. I probably also need to take classes on how to stay organised because this is not a natural skill to me at all. But I have no idea how to keep my room clean? Mess legitimately does not bother me. I do not notice mess. Mess is a natural state for me. I don't notice mess until idk, there's no clean spoons left in the kitchen, or I have no more clean underwear, or I can't find any important documents on my desk. I know this is not healthy, but I legitimately don't care about how messy things are. Or if I do care, wrapping my head around getting back to a state of organisation and cleanliness is just too hard for me to even want to try. Or I just. Forget about cleaning. I forget that mess is there. If I can't see it, I forget it exists, and then I get yelled at for not cleaning. How do I clean things if I can't remember that they're messy?! How????!!!!! And even if I manage to get clean and organised, I am back to being messy within a week, so I don't see the point in trying. So how??? Do you do the clean thing??? My parents are always on my case about it but I a) don't care b) thinking about cleaning immediately makes me feel tired and want to curl up in a ball and sleep forever and c) the process of cleaning, staying clean, and organising and staying organised is a mystery to me. Also d) I am super forgetful, as mentioned above. I managed to successfully clean my desk awhile ago by writing myself steps, and that helped me get over the immediately feeling exhausted by the entire concept feeling because I actually worked out what I needed to do. But it was still an exhausting process. I feel like this is a mixture of executive dysfunction and me actually just being a lazy slob. I probably need to get my act together. I am doing a very bad job at adulting. Does anyone have any advice for how to keep my stuff clean enough that it will appease others? Thank you!