Basically that. She's strongly anti-gay as far as I can tell just because "the Bible says so." Which. Okay I'm a Christian too, but I'm taking the Bible a little less seriously these days (but I'm not gonna tell her that) and from what I've read it doesn't even say that anyways! I have a few links like these (fake edit: I HAD some links, they're gone now xP) that can explain why it's not actually a problem religion wise, but I was wondering if anyone else had advice on how to talk to her about this? And, she is bigoted. She hates certain people just because and it's something I've fought with her about a lot. I dunno, I'm probably not going to be able to change her mind in one conversation or anything and I probably shouldn't try. I just don't want her to hate me or anything. I think it's an unlikely outcome, but it's not impossible. Like, as an example, in 2012 she thought that I was voting for Obama so she sent out a chain message asking people to pray for my soul. (Which, wow rude.) There's also my even more bigoted uncle, but I don't really care what he thinks anymore. I'm just keeping it from him because he'd tell my grandma. As soon as I can come out to her, I'll effectively be out to everyone (i know that that's it's safe to do so is a huge luxury to have). I'm thinking that it's probably better to have a conversation with her rather than just come out on Facebook on Coming Out Day. But I'd still like to post then (without restrictions) so I need to do this sooner rather than later. Fake edit #2: Oh, shit that's the 11th. Uh, I might have to figure out how to do this on my own =/ Or at least sooner than I thought. SO. I guess my question is - Try to have a conversation with her before Tuesday, or just post and have the conversation after? Also, how should I approach this?