The thing is, though, I don't think we walk on eggshells around you. And we don't have to do anything. (Also, like, I feel like we can consider the source here. I don't think your mom has had, historically, your best interests in mind.) I have topics I don't talk about with some of my friends. I'm sure they have topics they avoid with me. Sometimes we hit those topics anyway, but I think friendship includes the ability to fuck up, sometimes dramatically. You are your own person, and you can do what you want in the end. I know I would miss seeing your icon if you left. I like being able to know that the people I know are ok, and if they aren't ok, I like knowing that they're in a place that can help with that. You didn't pressure seebs for the moderation, seebs isn't being paid or forced to set up moderation - I'm not seeing people being manipulated into things they don't want to do.