Okay, so, followup on part of this: We've been doing the full moderation thing for a couple of weeks, and I'd like to see how people feel about it. For reference, yes, there's been a couple of posts I haven't approved. I think maybe two or three? Not a ton, though. I think it helps that the initial post doesn't get responses that escalate things further. I don't really like the delay in posts showing up, but I think overall it's working. But! I am more interested in opinions from other people, especially BPD Anon and anyone who was upset by the angry posts.