Guess I'll get right to the point. I want to go see my boyfriend for his birthday in May. The problem is he lives in Florida and I'm in Tennessee. I am currently 27 have a car and money to pay for everything. The problem is my parents specifically dad. He has this issue where he trusts no one but me my sisters and Mom pretty much and a temper to go with it. I know the minute I mention wanting to go out of state he'll say 'not by yourself you're not.' The next problem to add to that is I have zero irl friends so no one to bring along. I get where he's coming from but the last time I wanted to go on vacation on my own he threatened to call the cops to drag me back if I did. I'm just stuck feeling like the only way I'll be able to see him in person is to move out first.