i really, really, tried to make it clear that i needed people to stop doing things that i need to deal with. i'm in a bad mood. jesse's in too much pain to read the forum. i have been made aware of things that i need to deal with. i'ma go have breakfast. then i'ma deal with them. long story short: i am not inclined to consider, or accept, or even tolerate formally-worded public calls for a community standard of ostracizing people.