okay so

Discussion in 'The Undercity' started by seebs, Feb 17, 2017.

  1. AbsenteeLandlady123

    AbsenteeLandlady123 Chronically screaming

    Take your vacation. That's exactly what was bogging me down, and I feel much better after taking a few days off.
     
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  2. leo

    leo Well-Known Member

    Emotions ride over logic at times. What we would like to happen often doesn't because of this-- rather than asking them to not do the thing, the better thing is to tell them despite doing so, they will be met with understanding and kindness.
     
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  3. seebs

    seebs Benevolent Dictator

    Yup.

    But of course, for telling them that to work, it also has to actually happen.
     
  4. Technicality

    Technicality All's fair in love and shitposting

    I try not to act too much on emotional outbursts because it usually doesn't lead to the best results later. But I'll make an extra attempt to keep this in mind when something like this happens
     
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  5. leo

    leo Well-Known Member

    That is a two-way street and you are aware of so, Seebs. Not being sassy, but it goes for both the person who caused the wound and the person sustaining the wound. Many people did try to be patient with Alix, as others tried to tend to their wounds-- neither is wrong. Neither is right. Regardless, understanding and kindness.
     
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  6. seebs

    seebs Benevolent Dictator

    It was @hellfirelover, and I have a specific request to pass on an apology and let people know, so, there you go. It wasn't Alix, it was a random third party who had experiences that happened to look a lot like "a bunch of people talking about how bad you are" and sorta freaked out about it. Leaving for now, may or may not try to come back and engage, since they've never had much luck with that. But now you all know and can stop speculating. (No, it wasn't actually Alix. Or Michi. Or whoever else people thought it was, I think I've seen at least a half-dozen names, and many of them didn't even remotely make sense.)
     
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  7. michinyo

    michinyo On that Dumb Bitch Juice diet

    Not to be rude, but I'd have a hard time to be sympathetic to someone's feelings if they attacked me, especially if I didn't do anything to warrant it.
    Again goes for our anon person, as far as I've been told by everyone else, I wasn't demonizing Alix, but I was attacked again. Unless I was demonizing in your eyes @seebs and the anon's eyes.
     
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  8. michinyo

    michinyo On that Dumb Bitch Juice diet

    Wait someone accused me of attacking myself? LOL
     
  9. Xavius Emeritus

    Xavius Emeritus Suit Monkey

    [​IMG]
     
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  10. seebs

    seebs Benevolent Dictator

    it turns out the real Wildspyer was the friends we made along the way
     
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  11. rigorist

    rigorist On the beach

    Not to walk on all fours. That is the Law. Are we not Men?
    Not to scratch on trees. That is the Law. Are we not Men?
    Not to get mad. Not to get nude. That is the Law. Are we not Men?
     
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  12. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

    Aw fuck, now I can't even get nude?
     
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  13. rigorist

    rigorist On the beach

    Not on the internet. That is the Law. Are we not Men?
     
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  14. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

    [​IMG]
     
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  15. Technicality

    Technicality All's fair in love and shitposting

    I think that a large number of people on this forum are not men actually
     
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  16. seebs

    seebs Benevolent Dictator

    we are devo
     
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  17. rigorist

    rigorist On the beach

    Freedom from choice is what you want. Freedom of choice is what you got.
     
  18. michinyo

    michinyo On that Dumb Bitch Juice diet

    our name is legion for we are many?
     
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  19. Technicality

    Technicality All's fair in love and shitposting

    We are many you are but one
     
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  20. a tiny mushroom

    a tiny mushroom the tiniest

    for we are one, but we are many, and from all the lands on earth we come
     
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