There has been some excitement behind the scenes recently. You may have noticed Seebs and I being slightly more on edge, or you might have fielded some weird requests from me. This is why. Some of you may have noticed a fairly disturbing thread over in the 'Is This Abuse?' forum. Worth reading, but a few sample quotes: Spoiler: tw: abuse, exploitation, suicide attempt his response had been to get VERY MAD because he took it to mean people would be putting claims on food in the fridge, and that was something he didn't want because then what would he eat if people put claims in on food i am currently on food assistance, i get money every month to buy food for myself. i have to buy garbage food most of the time to prevent it being eaten by others. if i buy frozen food then no one else will eat it. it has happened many times that food i had bought ended up missing. if i'm not careful with what kind of food i order out, it will also get eaten. and yeah but see it makes him anxious to have people put claims on any food cuz how would he know what he could eat he's also insisted on not having any 'go-betweens' or 'mediators,' and that he'll only talk about these things if op comes to him about it first. despite, you know. screaming at other people he talks with. Other highlights include objecting strongly to emergency services being called in response to a suicide attempt, and balking at requests to let emergency services know where a suicidal roommate was. The OP of this thread is a Kintsugi user who ended up needing a place to stay, and someone offered to take them in, give them a place to stay, and so on. Bought tickets for them to move out. And then... this happened. And this isn't some random asshole off the Internet. This is Wiwaxia. Yes, that Wiwaxia. The one who was so vocal about watching for abuse and ejecting anyone abusive from the community. This is one of the reasons that this went up: please don't assume that someone from here is necessarily going to be trustworthy. Please report things that make you uncomfortable. We really, really want to try to make sure nothing like this ever happens again. As part of that, Wiwaxia's account has been limited (post moderation, no private messages, no edit/delete) to ensure accountability and oversight. Because this was profoundly fucked up. To head off a couple likely questions: No, this has not resulted in a ban. It has resulted in the above restrictions. Yes, the OP of the thread above is now out and living somewhere safer. We didn't want to share anything until after they were out and had given the okay.