sad fish sounds

Discussion in 'Brainbent' started by a small fis)(, Jul 24, 2016.

  1. Xitaqa

    Xitaqa Secretly awesome

    Maybe it would be helpful to frame it a different way. Because to me that looks less like "it was just an act" and more like "they're a little clumsy," which is honestly okay. I have that problem, I accidentally hurt people or push their emotional hotbuttons, it's the thing I get anxiety about in fact, but I've been learning to forgive myself when I do.

    So, if I may offer a suggestion, you might try this practice: when you find yourself thinking that you can't possibly be genuinely kind and helpful because sometimes you end up hurting people anyway, try telling yourself that this is wrong, that you only hurt people by accident and that you can learn how to be more careful. It will take a while - at first you'll probably feel that you're kidding yourself but if you keep it up you can train your brain to think about the issue in this way instead. And if you think about it this way it's easier to see it as a problem you can solve instead of imagining yourself to be secretly bad.

    Either way, don't forget that I believe in you.
     
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  2. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    i want to go back to tumblr so so badly i know it's a bad idea but
    i don't know what i'm gonna do
     
  3. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    still on the verge of a panic attack when i even remember the thing that triggered me in the first place lmao
    why am i like this
     
  4. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    i hate myself so much
    i just want to go back
     
  5. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    i don't know what to do i can't stand this any longer i wish i was dead
     
  6. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

  7. Xitaqa

    Xitaqa Secretly awesome

    {{smallsadfish}}
     
  8. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    i can pretty much be sure i'm an irredeemable person by now anyway. i don't know why i keep on trying to get close to people. i wish i could stop.
     
  9. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    i'm abusive and toxic and only care about myself and i'm selfish enough to get upset when anyone realizes it.
     
  10. kmoss

    kmoss whoops

    I dunno if it'll make you feel better, but your cuttlefish pictures in the howdy thread always brightens my day

    (and also, it's super human to be a lil selfish. that's years of survival talking through your genes.

    it's also super human to be worried that you're Too selfish, especially if you-
    I was gonna write "especially if you have anxiety" but honestly I think most people I know have worried about being too selfish. (though maybe that just means I know a lot of anxious people))
     
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  11. Lambda

    Lambda everything happens so much

    We haven't really talked, so I don't know how much this is worth, but your posts always seem friendly and not particularly toxic or unpleasant at all. Seconding what kmoss said about your cuttles as well, they're very sweet.

    a lot of this sounds like anxietybrain, so maybe cut yourself a little slack?
     
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  12. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    i havent used this in a long time lol hi i Long For Deathâ„¢
     
  13. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    every possible option i have from now makes me want to die,
     
  14. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    i feel like nobodys even listening even when people are and its makin me dissociate more this is fine, i feel completely trapped in my own body,
     
  15. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    softly banging pots and pans together outside your window at 3 am
    i! have ceased to exist a long time ago! and am fundamentally disconnected with reality!
     
  16. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

  17. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    nothing is real and by now im just kinda accepting that lol throwback 2 when i existed
     
  18. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    if ive really disappeared from objective reality right now u see i can post, all the cuttle i want, so it's not quite all
     
  19. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    me @ my own fundamental lack of contact with reality and existential dread: somethings Fucky
     
  20. a small fis)(

    a small fis)( 26 people in a trench coat

    its all so much quieter than its ever been before im disconnecting slowly from everything and im kinda okay with that
     
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