Not one bit surprised about this decision; in favor, for what that's worth. Don't remember if we've formally met, @Beldaran. If not, hi! I've been impressed by your dedication to mediating conflicts and your deft handling of said mediation. Congratulations on your promotion, and sorry in advance for the headaches. XD
Alright Seebs, you're not really making people feel any more comfortable right now and it's Not Helping. Some people can't "just close the tab" because their main social circles are here. We have a responsibility to present relevant information that can help people feel comfortable when there's big changes. You and your autistic family group would know something about sudden change being disruptive, so let's try to be nice.
that's a good point. i feel like part of the reason some of us are very okay with you becoming a moderator while some of us aren't is because for some of us, this change has been a over a year in the making
I think I remember it being something that was discussed a while back and I don't remember anyone having an objection, I kind of assumed it had already happened and then forgot about it.
@Beldaran frankly i'm just surprised that it took this long to become official! i've kind of thought of you as like. mod-lite? for ages now, honestly
I remember this being a thing being discussed at least since before the BPDAnon blow up. I wasn't even sure why Beldaran wasn't a mod already
I like that one of the user complaints was wanting mods able to mediate and shut down arguments so seebs promotes the one member with actual mediator training and experience
Same hat re: the already a mod thing! I think my First Few Beldaran Sightings were when you were in like FULL MEDIATING MODE so you came off as kind of intimidating and...not closed off, but like...Too Balanced To Be Real and then I saw you around more and was in the "yes good" camp :D
This is incredibly flattering, thank you guys for being nice. Also I was not aware that so many people thought I was a mod before this. :o
Honestly, Beldaran, while I knew you weren't a mod, I kept forgetting that you weren't a mod. Because you seem, well, modly! In a good way. So yes, I approve.
i think a heads up in the furure would be nice, but then again this situation has been tumultuous from the start. congrats beldaran!
I feel you were sort of informally a mod anyway, though without special powers in the software before this. I agree that we needed to spread the mod thing around a little more to make sure things didn't fall through the cracks.
Everyone who thought Beldaran was already a mod was just receiving vague flashes from the future where Beldaran is now a mod
Would like to say that I second the suggestion for forum specific minimods, with maybe less powers but who have Authority and experience to settle disputes in specific realms.
I promise not to try and make you stay on topic if it makes you feel better. It would be an exercise in futility anyway; things I personally find annoying have nothing to do with the boring job of soft-deleting actual death threats. ;p