So, my step-father is out of town and my mom wants me to come out and spend the night Saturday. I am torn because spending the night normally means a few good meals - maybe dinner out - maybe a trip to my fav thrift, and a chance to raid her outside freezer with all the meat she buys, freezes, and forgets about. But it would be quite a few hours of dealing with her trying to get me to tell her stuff and lots of talk about my step-father, and probably some more attempts to get me to sign an agreement about money. It might be fine. She been really pleasant lately, even made me a dentist appointment and random bought every I had in my amazon cart (amazon pantry order and a lap top pillow fan thing). And she has a whole bag of stuff for me including stuff from my fav make up place. Tempted to do it and make it conditional like - I'll do it if we finally get me that new desk chair from Ikea, but that feels really manipulative. But I'm not sure it's worth the stress and I never sleep well in that house.