Okay, so - I'm getting to the point where I need to replace...basically 90% of my current wardrobe. Including my underwear and bras. Mostly because it's not a super-great look for my pants to actually be trying their damnedest to be falling off, and nothing else quite fits since I've actually been making some progress on losing weight. The problem: I...actually don't really know, with enough certainty to be comfortable actually spending money on things, what I actually want in a wardrobe. Not in terms that can actually help with going out shopping, anyways. I haven't actually done a whole lot of clothes-selection for myself, ever, and I'm not sure what's appropriate to wear since apparently there's a slight disconnect between how I view myself and what my actual age is, and also clothing stores are Weird. (I keep being confused by the fact that I'm 30. I could swear I'm not much past 18 yet, but the calendar disagrees.) How do I figure this out?