Yo: I'd just like to report that I'm okay. what happened is my mom and dad yesterday morning had a suspiciously specific conversation about second identities online. later that day after mom had left dad confronted me with open links to both my genderfuck blog (the now defunct closetedtransboy.tumblr.com) and to various kintsugi links. he apparently found this by clinking links on a list on the router. a lot of the kintsugi sites had "you need a password to access" on them instead of content but I didn't think of this when I sent seebs a panicky ask. I spent the next chunk of time freaking out on afterdark, but my parents are okay with the trans thing and all this has done is made me hyper paranoid about accessing websites not at home. then my dad bought my ice cream. this is also the day I acquired a ukulele.