Reporting the mods

God, this. Let me give myself a clean sound bite to quote in the future.

This never happened.

Nobody is making fact claims about your emotions.

I am accusing you of repeatedly saying factually incorrect things, about me and my actions, which are provably untrue.

I want you to stop.

You're being told this

because you raised the subject yourself, jesus christ

 

@Athol Magarac

Within the last two days, you have been expressing this in an approximately present tense.
Stop lying.

Oh, come at me. I'm even harder to annoy than Spock is.

That's honestly a fairly average time for a namechange. Also, changing your name is not going to somehow make what you've said and done okay.

Every time you try to talk about anything, you veer into upsetting topics, apparently by accident.

 

If you're making a plan, you need to call a hotline.

If you are in the US - National Suicide Prevention hotline 1-800-273-8255. I don't know the other countries one, but one could google "[country] suicide hotline" and get results.

If you prefer text - The National Suicide Prevention also has a text/chat line : https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/
https://www.imalive.org/ also exists

 

The thing where it's an absolute for you - and now all about African children - is uncomfortable. It implies that there is still a moral component, and combined with your previous recent statements on this site suggests that you still think that anyone who contracted it through any voluntary action rather than being born with HIV deserves an undignified death. Attaching a moral component to a disease is the foundation of the problem.

Yeah, the name change took time, but that was a genuine mistake due to not having seen it. It's unfortunate, but was not malicious and is not guaranteed to not happen again due to, y'know, the fallibility of human nature.

Also, this particular thread is not the venue for My Little Pony or whatever. You are, in general, free and even encouraged to participate in non-loaded discussions in other venues and not make them about you or bigotry or moderation. You might find that enjoyable. But no, changing the subject here is not how that's going to happen.

I think other people have addressed the other relevant points. Though I'll add this: your not being able to tell when something should or shouldn't be wiggled is part of the reason for post moderation, and I'm pretty much in agreement over most of the stuff that's been wiggled.

 

I'm inserting numbers to make my replies clearer, and separating replies to each part.

(1) My interpretation - You believe that we have been saying that you can't be helped at all, and that you'll always be this way. There are other connotations that broken has, but I'll stick with that for now.
My response -
Nope. We are saying we are not trained enough to help you. That does not mean you are "fundamentally broken" at all.

You CAN get help, but it just can't be here.

Since we keep saying you can get help, that disproves the notion that we're calling you broken.
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(2) My interpretation - You believe that the fact that your name change request wasn't fulfilled when you asked for it means that we were purposefully ignoring it as a punishment/attack/slight against you.
My response -
I'm sorry that your name change request was overlooked and then forgotten.

Fun fact - a lot of the time mods are busy with Life Things as well as a good chunk of us being ADHD. Honestly, we just forgot. It[not changing your name] wasn't an intentional slight.
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(3) My interpretation - You want to "start over" with a new name, meaning that you don't want anyone to bring up anything that happened while you had the old name. You also want the mods to be less strict with you and let more of your posts through.
My response -
A new name is fine, but it will not change the way anyone reacts towards you. A new name does not erase the history of interactions that you've had with the users.

"Starting over" even just "a bit" isn't really possible. People are allowed to say that you've hurt them. It doesn't matter if you want to move on from it, especially if they are still hurting. It might be healthier to move on from it, but eh. That's for a different post.

Similarly you're allowed to say that people've hurt you.

If your report of events is not factual, they may correct you on the facts, and vice versa.

No one has denied that you've been hurt, though a lot of us may not understand why. People are arguing with the facts as you present them. But it is clear that you've been hurt.

Similarly, the mods do make moderation decisions in context, which include past interactions.
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(4) My interpretation - You do not want to talk about highly contentious topics
My response - I agree! Lighter topics of discussion have lower stakes and so people can be more forgiving.

Sometimes I have noticed that you say something in a light discussion that brings up a heavier discussion because of the way you phrased something or a line of thought you presented.

You might not be able to fully get away from all the heavy discussions, but I definitely think that you can try

 

nope! the only person to have said this is her, solely in response to being told shes serophobic

 

Which lie? Is there actually a directly-falsifiable statement been made?

 

That's not how any of this works, and massively homophobic besides.

But I do.

Part of the point is that you seem permanently unable to actually listen to anything anyone says, ever, so we end up repeating ourselves a lot.