Reporting the mods

Lord have mercy

You asked me why I kept bringing up the lies.

I QUOTED THOSE POSTS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION.

 

Thank you for the reply.

1) I'm sorry that you were feeling low. The serophobia stuff was cleared up multiple times. Can I quote the explanations?

I'm fairly certain the risk-taking idea was wiggled. I can bump that thread up if you'd like.

2) I would appreciate it if you did! The reason some of those posts get wiggled are a) you included it with a response to something else and it[explanation] got caught in the wiggle b) and explanation should use the I statements that someone brought up a bit ago. You should be saying what you are feeling and what you did, but you shouldn't make accusations at someone else. I think those two things would cover most of the explanations that haven't been acknowledged. (some of them have been but you may have missed them)

3) I don't know that you can really get that. You certainly can't force people to give you that padding. Some people might be willing to give it to you, but that's up to them. Time isn't going to heal this one, only a change in behavior will.

4) I know it's hard, and I think sometimes you don't even think you're vering into a heavy topic but it ends up being one. I think it's a very good idea to try! I'm just warning you that you might not catch all of them before they happen.

 

1) stop using the word arousal in conjunction with me. I know what you mean. You know the connotations of the word. Find something different

Or is it okay for you to ask for no reaction images, but it's not fine for me to ask you to stop using a word you've already been told has uncomfortable sexual connotations? :)

2) you wanted a tchgb thread? CONGRATS! You are chronically incapable of remembering even the history of your own actions, and we're already back to implying it's my fault you were using manipulative tactics, and ignoring fact corrections i just finished fucking making.

Every time someone tries to help you, it's a convenient excuse to reset your memory to your favorite fairy tale version of history where you're the innocent victim.

I have literally no hope of getting through to you in any meaningful way, but I'm collecting the whole nasty abusive, manipulative history in a central spot. Don't start the thread. I'm starting it.

 

yes, because shes told you that her participation in these threads, and a lot of the issue regarding her talking to you, will go away when you stop lying about your interactions with her. spock is allowed to state when you are being untruthful in your recounting of events, especially when there is proof of those events occurring.

and i have to say that while questionnaires may have been helpful in the past, especially with kathy trying to determine your intentions, i dont feel that its particularly fair of you to put the burden of your communication being clear and understood on me or anyone else.

youve been given tips on how to communicate effectively. as well, its been established that communicating with you in such a way is hard while youre still drinking as heavily and and as often as you are.

go to rehab. get help. theres very little anyone here can do for you until then. like lizardlicks said, things will start making a hell of lot more sense when youre better.

 

adsadfsffad you literally just finished telling us how you recanted that recanting, good god

 

she ALSO said that she recanted that recanting.

 

You are making your basic human decency conditional.
Stop that.

 

The nuance that Athol doesn't want to recognize, despite repeated explanations, is that even if she says blamimg me was wrong, if her other statements still functionally place blame on me, it kind of undoes that first bit.

By pointing out that the plain meaning of her words still blames me, she thinks people are "yelling at her for taking it back"