Reporting the mods

Discussion in 'That's So Meta!' started by Athol Magarac, Oct 24, 2018.

  1. Athol Magarac

    Athol Magarac I prefer reading posts without a lot of topics.

    No one reads my explanations.
     
  2. spockandawe

    spockandawe soft and woolen and writhing with curiosity

    God, you're shameless

    You aren't communicating ANYTHING clearly, which is a running theme. Before today, the last thing you said to me as a mod was arguing how you should totally be allowed to use slurs, and the last thing you said to me as a person was literally

    mocking the idea that there was anything wrong with threatening to send me videos of you self-harming while screaming my name

    No communication disconnect has been fixed

    I have negative interest in """fixing""" any disconnect with you

    I was going to describe what about this was hilarious, but... it's everything. All of it. The whole post.

    And in case you thought people were that easy to distract, go to rehab already, and get some fucking therapy.
     
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  3. Jove

    Jove [ destination defenestration ]

    /clears throat

    Ahem.

    THAT. IS. NOT. THE. PROBLEM. HERE. STOP. MAKING. IT. ABOUT. SOMETHING. IT'S. NOT.

    You are... very tone deaf. Or deliberately selective. Either way, @Athol Magarac, if you need help with resources, for rehab or otherwise, I have time to eviserate today, some spare spoons, and willing to take a look for them.

    And, yes, I will keep @-ing you, to make sure you see the offer, rather than miss it-- especially when it's obvious you could use the help. Either a yes or no will suffice.

    EDIT: Quote added for clarification.

    EDIT 2, THE ELECTRIC BOOGALOO: And, yes, I will be very annoying and persistent about that @-ing until I get a very clear response from you, Athol, because you are a fellow human being, and deserve that much.
     
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  4. rigel

    rigel in a line of late afternoon sun

     
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  5. Jove

    Jove [ destination defenestration ]

    Shhhh, @rigel! You're ruining the plot twist!
     
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  6. Athol Magarac

    Athol Magarac I prefer reading posts without a lot of topics.

    I think I started a thread about hoarding and it got ignored... but go ahead and start an ADHD motivation thread or a dehoarding thread if you think it would help.
     
  7. TheOwlet

    TheOwlet A feathered pillow filled with salt and science

    This is the most counter-intuitive, bullshit thing i've seen in a while, especially considering how often you complained about spock 'flying of the handle' at you. No. No absolutely not. You don't get to pull this fuckery.

    STOP THIS. GO TO REHAB.
     
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  8. Jove

    Jove [ destination defenestration ]

    Oh, hey, it's 1PM for me. Hourly, annoying reminder of my offer to help you with resources, including ADHD and hoarding support. Stay tuned for 2PM, because I have absolutely nothing better to do for the next 8 hours.
     
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  9. Athol Magarac

    Athol Magarac I prefer reading posts without a lot of topics.

    So talking about mods was something that you had to respond to as a personal attack, but... That spoiler thing was like a lot of dishwasher loads ago and I've said things to Spock specifically without running the dishwasher since.
     
  10. spockandawe

    spockandawe soft and woolen and writhing with curiosity

    Words... mean things. Not these words. Not the words you have just used. Feel free to try again or whatever
     
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  11. TheOwlet

    TheOwlet A feathered pillow filled with salt and science

    ...someone whose native language is English do me a favour and translate above post for me, please. I understand these words individually but not together
     
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  12. rigel

    rigel in a line of late afternoon sun

    that doesnt mean what you said didnt happen or wasnt absolutely horrific. a few days or a week or so after the fact doesnt mean it doesnt MATTER anymore. by that logic, the ppc bullshit was a billion dishwasher loads ago but its SOMEHOW okay for YOU to still be upset over it
     
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  13. Jove

    Jove [ destination defenestration ]

    What's that? Be more annoying than Nicole from Nailed it? Can do!

    WHEN YOU PERSONALLY ATTACK SOMEONE BY LYING TO THEM, THAT IS AN ATTACK. THAT IS THE ISSUE HERE. STOP DIVERTING. YOU WILL NOT WIN THAT BATTLE.

    What's more, re: asking someone go do something for you is good, but I also think it's worth pointing out "go ahead and start a thread for me" is not an adiquate response anymore. Time to step up and do things for yourself, because I think a lot of people are well past that bullshit line where nothing gets done because you don't take your own health into your own hands.

    RE: THE WORDS, @TheOwlet

    Pretty sure they're saying "I stopped/didn't listen ages ago, and couldn't be assed to go back and read, especially since, you know, Spock", and until Athol proves me wrong by working on their shitty behavior, that's what I'm going with. Consequences, Athol. Consequences.
     
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  14. Artemis

    Artemis i, an asexual moron

    Just confirming as a native speaker that it's not just you.
     
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  15. rigel

    rigel in a line of late afternoon sun

    i tHINK shes using dishwasher loads as a measure of time.
     
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  16. Athol Magarac

    Athol Magarac I prefer reading posts without a lot of topics.

    @Jove I can't initiate PM. I'd tell Pal but I don't think they can initiate PM either.

    Okay, what's the word for when a teenager gives a guy her number and spends days agonizing over how he doesn't like her when really he's just been working up the nerve or thinking that calling the girl will somehow make him a loser even though he likes her back? (Shutup, we're in landline dating zone unless you have an analogy my theoretically-grandma mindset can handle.) That's the word I'm looking for instead of "off the deep end"
     
  17. spockandawe

    spockandawe soft and woolen and writhing with curiosity

    Ooh, that could be it. Well, it sure is lucky there's a nice short tchgb thread to document these things, because that post was four whole days ago. Holding a grudge for years? Reasonable. Remembering something that happened four days ago? OUT OF LINE >:(
     
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  18. Ouija

    Ouija Nani the fuck?

    @TheOwlet from what I can GUESS:

    “So my blanket statement about the mods you take as an attack [end full thought], the me threatening self harm was FOREVER AGO i don’t know why you’re still on it [full thought], I have since said other things to Spock, why isn’t she focusing on those? [full thought]”

    As in...”why does Spock want to respond to the blanket statement when there’s newer, Spock related stuff? It isn’t as if she’s let go of the threatening self harm and holding myself hostage to her go, I don’t get it.”

    I could be wrong but that’s how I parsed it when I broke the statements down.
     
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  19. Athol Magarac

    Athol Magarac I prefer reading posts without a lot of topics.

    ppc
    "last thing you said to me as a person was literally"

    As in she's no longer counting anything, including stuff directed at "mods" in general where before it was considered a personal attack worthy of violating boundaries. (copy-paste PPC stuff that no one ever paid attention to.)
     
  20. rigel

    rigel in a line of late afternoon sun

    nitpicking abt semantics of the thing doesnt mean it doesnt matter
     
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