Reporting the mods

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identify literally any of yours!

 

Oh wow, you got me. I'm totally chastened by your usage of the 'NO U' defence.

That was sarcasm. You lie all the time, or you have such a flaky grasp on things like 'facts' and 'reality' that it makes no difference.

 

I don't think she's lying, exactly. She's just not saying things that are true. And I can't tell why, or how, but the net result is, we have this recurring pattern, and it doesn't get better, and people are just sorta burned out on it.

 

Hey, whaddup, that's me again. And yeah, by just about any metric, threatening to send videos of self-harm is shitty behavior. Which is to say nothing about the wiggled content I just caught up on, got damn XD

Anyways! Your attempted you-don't-understand-autistic-literalism gotcha was ineffective, because I'm autistic. This gotcha is also ineffective. Because I'm developmentally delayed. And I've put in a lot of work figuring out the ways I was inadvertently hurting people around me and finding ways to mitigate it. I put a lot of work into studying people and social rules, which would be super useful for me to help with your situation, except for the way you've decided all mod criticism of your wiggled posts is invalid.

Anyways, I was going to put off the chore of updating tchgb, but that wiggled post is significant, wow XD

 

Wow, it would be convenient if there was like.... some kind of thread...... where these interactions were recorded. What a shame nothing like that exists. I mean, just imagine if it existed and you posted to it multiple times without apparently processing what the entire point of the thread was.

But let's go SUPER short-term. Like how you keep insisting you've apologized for and/or acknowledged what was fucked up about your behavior

I'm not even going to collect links because this is a major topic of discussion within the last few pages of this thread, and the lack of apology is more thoroughly cited in tchgb. Besides, digging up links would be a waste of time when I'm pretty sure you're going to ignore this again

This isnt an externally imposed reality. This is the cold, hard historical facts. Which are recorded. You. Are. Saying. Things. Which are provably untrue.

And I'm going to keep collecting these contradictions because you keep being an ass about 'ummm well ACTUALLY i already said--' when in fact you have done no such thing.

Literally one hour beforehand, bolding mine:

Words mean things. You have used different words. Which are not even approximately equivalent. Therefore, follow this, these two statements.... mean different things.

Going to separate corners has a DIRECT meaning of physical separation. That's not connotation, it's just THE MEANING OF WORDS. And not being up to seeing me isn't the same as not being up to talk to me. Nobody can magically infer your meaning when you say things you don't mean.

Avoiding third person and 'you' (second person) mean that there is literally virtually (ivy saw an option i missed) no way for anyone to talk to or about you. That's unreasonable.

And let's not forget, the tchgb thread exists because you are incapable of NOT complaining about me in public spaces. You wanted to know how to make me go away. You yelled at me for explaining that the solution is to stop talking about me. You are STILL not capable of not-talking about me.

Good fucking god, demanding that I pretend you aren't in the room while you pull THAT shit is one of the least self-aware, MOST entitled things I've seen from you yet. Nobody's stopping you from talking mad shit about me. You are remarkably unsilenced on that topic. But if you keep talking about me, i am sure as FUCK going to keep engaging.

 

How does it work out when people ask you to clarify your meaning? Does it work out in a way that would encourage them to try again?

The only "reality" that anyone is trying to impose is actual observable facts.

But! It is absolutely true that you often say viciously cruel things, and then we don't approve those posts. And people keep asking you to apologize, and I think you've made it really clear that you don't feel sorry in any way for any of what you do. We can tell this, because no matter how directly or clearly someone tells you what you did that hurt them, you consistently apologize for things they didn't say you did, and usually things that didn't happen.

And you might view this as being "punished for being truthful". But actually, you're being discouraged from being so blatant about being an asshole.

It doesn't matter whether or not they're best efforts. It matters whether or not you are successfully not saying completely false things about what other people did or said.

I also simply don't believe that this has anything to do with "development". It might have to do with being very drunk.

Anyway, I've said it before, and will likely say it again: I do not believe that it is within your ability, at this time, to correctly describe a thing anyone has said about you that was critical.

This is a really, really, low standard. I'm not requiring you to agree with it. I'm not requiring you to describe everything they said. I'm just looking for you to accurately describe a single criticism that has been made of you. Not editing it into a criticism you like more, or a criticism that's more obviously unfair, or anything like that. Just describe what the criticism was.

And you can't. And that's the problem here. This isn't about "development", this is about whether or not you are willing to actually confront a thing. If you aren't, you'll stay unhappy.

 

And I did forget to reply to this. Like was said, reading aloud might help, but won't guarantee accuracy. The emphasis placed on the words shifts everything, and in more ways than can be reflected in italics/bold/etc. That post is calm, but highkey annoyed, and tired, because I'm real sick of how you keep coming back to this conversational cul-de-sac, where you admit you have trouble with that element, but try to make it everyone else's problem.