Reporting the mods

I think you're saying you're burned out, but given your track record with metaphors, I have no idea.

No, really, you're terribly transparent at it because your brain is utterly marinated in Stupid Juice.

 

What was actually said was, (paraphrased) "if you think they're so abusive, why do you try to emulate them so much".
I don't think anyone here but you is under the impression that the PPC were particularly abusive in their dealings with you.

You have been repeatedly given instructions and debugging advice for how to deal with social situations.
Consider the following:

1. Actually read the damn advice.
2. See step 1.

 

Like.
The reason we aren't jumping over ourselves to give advice is that

You.
Keep.
Not.
Reading.
It.

It's just pissing effort down the sinkhole that is your terminally pickled brain.

 

You're attempting to gotcha me about Spock's actions (or possibly the PPC's), without understanding how thoroughly different the situations are.
You. Sent. Graphic. Threats. To. Spock.
That is worlds apart from the moderating you have been so 'cruelly' subjected to.

That is because you continue to not understand and seem incapable of not trying to make excuses.

Because your apologies are often in the form of "I'm sorry that [something blatantly untrue]".
Bizarrely, these aren't apologies for the right thing, so they're pointless.

 

Honestly, I'm insulted by these pathetic attempts at getting me to contradict myself.

 

Where did I offer to do your homework for you?

 

If you think they're abusive, and you emulate them, you are behaving in a way you think is abusive.

Also, I don't think they were particularly abusive, but they absolutely did some crappy things, and appear to exist entirely to be internet bullies, and have pointed that out.

That would depend a lot on circumstances. I'm sorry my cat is hurt when I inject her with insulin, but I wouldn't do anything differently. But I have an actual argument that what I am doing is necessary for her survival. That matters!

This is absolutely true.

Okay, so.

Do: Describe a criticism someone has made of you, accurately describing what they criticized.

 

So, this is an actual thing! Narcissists literally can't comprehend criticism of themselves. Their brains will just... go out of focus suddenly when they get close to the thing. See, as a closely related thing, missing missing reasons. Note the similarity; "no one will tell me what's wrong". And yet, we know that people have told them what's wrong. The estranged-parent-forums people will even describe someone telling them what's wrong, then say that no one will tell them what's wrong.

So if you say "seebs is bad about people's boundaries, for instance, they kept poking X about topic Y after X said not to", I see that text and I can agree or disagree with it. If I were a narcissist, I'd basically see "seebs is bad about people's boundaries, for instance, the͟y ̨ḱe̵p҉t p͡oki͜n͢g̶ X̕ ̵̀a̸b̸͟ó̸̕u͟͡t͞ ҉͞t̀̕o̧͠pì̸̴c̸͟ ̛Y̡͟ ̵͟͡a͡͞f̡҉͞t̷̸̛̕͝e̶̡̨̛r̴̶̡͘͏ ̀҉̸̕͡X̷̨̨͢ ̷͜s̶͘͞͡a̧͞i͘͘͢͡͡d̶̛̀͝ ̶́͘͝҉n̸̡̨ó̷̶͟t̴̸̵͜͟ ̨̡̛t̀҉o" and it's pretty hard to see how that's a meaningful criticism, so I don't understand why you're saying that I'm bad about boundaries and not giving any kind of reason. You're just making weird noises and I can't focus on them.

 

I'm not. I'm criticizing you for actively pursuing the conflict in general, but always needing to take a break right when you're given a clear, simple criticism, and then saying no one gave you clear, simple, criticisms.