Reporting the mods

also can you please engage with something that's actually relevant to this thread and not a one-off aside

 

Trust Athol to respond to that rather than anything else. Don't give her an avenue for derailment because she will take any opportunity to do so rather that do the necessary work for self-improvement. Or even admitting that she hasn't been anything but the victim here.

 

exactly what would give you this conclusion. because from where i'm sitting, this looks like a bald-faced lie. i do not have the energy to comb through everything and quote your statements to the opposite, but. that doesn't make any sense, athol

 

actually i lied

the famous extra pissy quote

support for your assertion that being terse helps, except. every example of this happening, you do not respond well. people need to be performatively overempathetic and soothing to you for anything to get across. so this isn't necessarily a lie, in that i'm not ascribing you intentionally saying a false thing, but it is absolutely false

again, you routinely misread polite-but-not-catering-to-you as rude and hostile. if anything, being more terse seems like the last thing you would want.

 

btw these are just quotes from the first page of my search results. i have more

 

Me as well. Do not assign me a nickname.

 

i'm avoiding saying lying specifically because athol has historically blown up at that accusation.

my use of "blown up" is intentional, athol. that is, i feel, an accurate reaction of the course of your escalation in reaction to being accused of lying.

i don't think athol is lying in the strict definition of "intentionally making false statements to deceive, often for malicious purposes" because i don't think athol is being intentional about it. i think athol says generally what athol believes to be true at any given moment.

athol just isn't actually grounded in reality at any given point in time

so pretty much everything athol says is provably false

 

The mods have "gotten better" about "not looking unreasonable" because now there is a witness to the ways you have been abusing them who is not going to tolerate you lying about it.

Just own up to what you did and apologize. Apologize for trying to hurt people, not because you think it's a shortcut to social success, but because other humans matter and hurting people like you have been is wrong.

 

also, i would like to amend an earlier claim i made. athol has responded to a thread lebesgue made that i'm not supposed to be reading, so i haven't read those particular posts, and thus technically haven't read EVERY SINGLE POST like i claimed.

i did ask lebesgue about their interaction with her, though, and i have actually read everything else

 

Having just received clarification on the reasoning for two of the six posts I was confused about being wiggled, I now see why the only post I could reasonably interpret as "silencing" was wiggled. I would personally have still been hand wobbly about approving the other one. Which means.....
........every single post in the wiggler from you, athol, has a clear and reasonable cause and effect behind the wiggling. There were two posts that were moved to their original threads after I pointed some stuff out, but the cause and effect were very apparent.

So no. You weren't being silenced. You weren't being "censored", you were being prevented from engaging with people who have told you they don't want you in their threads.

Your claims of mod abuse are baseless, offensive and false. The "worst" thing I saw in there was snitch being mildly snarky in the most recent stuff and they've kinda earned the right to be. The rest was a lot of people, some of whom are my friends, working very carefully to try and explain shit to you in a way you can parse, and you insulting, sexually harassing, and threatening them for it. So knock it the fuck off. This stuff doesn't Get To Stay Behind Doors. Every mod is a person and they're good people and do not deserve the myriad ways you've been trying to hurt them. Stop it. Get some help.

 

also, @Athol Magarac

i am willing to talk about how to express pain and hurt without being abusive. you've been given this help, but if a new person throwing themselves at this helps, sure

full disclosure, i'm helping with this because my parents treat any reference of me struggling with being hurt as abusive and left with me serious scrupulosity issues wrt asking people for help when i'm hurting, and i find it deeply, deeply of