Reporting the mods

Apologies if this is off-topic, but Athol you said that you don't want your profile to read "female". Is there a different pronoun we should be using?

 

Oh, actually Athol has been pretty bad with my own pronouns too. So I'm thinking it's legitimately a problem she has.

 

Oh my god, there's more than just the abuse directed at Spock?

(On a side note, I do think the majority of this slog should get merged into the original Juicy Review thread, just because it's all the Sames. But that's just a personal preference)

 

yes.

 

While I appreciate you trying to apologize to me, but your whole spiel turned it into a nonapology that I will not accept.

It wasn't about your poor wording. It was about the way you abused others, and me, and the fact you dug your heels in. Don't weasel.

I didn't say that. And I'm not letting you make it my fault you fucked up.

Not acceptable, and if you have to ask why, then you clearly haven't been paying attention. Stop making me the unreasonable one for not putting up with your transphobic comments and abuse of myself and others.

Yes, you will.

First, it sucks that your living situation is like that. Your husband is an abuser too, it sounds like. You need to seriously consider the merits of keeping that marriage or not.

Second, interjecting comments that are meant to garner sympathy in a discussion where you hurt others is something I'm not going to let slide, especially since this was supposed to be an apology to me and not you.

Third? Upset? Nah, I'm actually amused. I'm amused that you thought I'd fall for it and somehow get mad. Nope, no dice.

Now, if you please, apologize to me.

 

(Not directed at you, to clarify, just the entire situation in general)

 

Now I have no other option than to consider this statement either a) a lie, b) you being obtuse, or c) all of the above.

 

but, jove, why aren't you accepting the magic words that'll make you not angry anymore and make this whole thing ~disappear~

 

Gasp! You're right! How could I have been so wrong?!

 

yeah, i agree

it's all the same circular bullshit so let's make a fun athol version of the CDCF and move all the stupid derails there, or else i highly doubt there will be a forum discussion that doesn't end up focusing on her ever again

 

Also @spockandawe if you feel you need to dump all this into your TCHGB for documentation purposes go ahead, I don't mind pings and it doesn't matter when.

 

@Athol Magarac , if you go into your personal details you can change your gender to "unspecified". Then it won't say female. That's what I have done.

 

103 goddamn pages not even counting the tchgb stuff....

 

Since I joined, I've wanted it to read "why does it matter"

I don't think I can read what options there were, but I didn't like any of them. If I go with the third one, everyone's going to call me a they.

 

Does that mean I can put wiggled posts here? Because if you're controlling what can and can't go up, the ones that really prove my point will remain hidden. Actually, anything where the mods made a mistake and moved it out of the wiggler means that I could be accused of lying.

Of course, a lot of that early stuff was probably not understanding what was too sexual and what wasn't.


I wonder how many pages of this were from "stop talking to" and "quit lying" exchanges.

 

"I don't know what my gender is but please use she/her" is a perfectly valid statement