can y'all get around to modding my posts through quicker please

i think we’re not acknowledging that chiomu was just triggered and projecting and we are all just kind of entering their triggered reality and extending the hypothetical that i am actually talking about bdsm when i am using words with a literal definition .

 

if you have or are currently participating in bdsm, maybe this is a sign you... should stop, because it’s triggering you

 

If most people who read a thing agree that it has a certain meaning, then that's what that piece of writing communicated. It doesn't really matter what the writer intended to say (except ethically, where we often treat a harmful mistake differently than deliberate harm). If you write something with zero sexual intentions and everyone who reads it says "wow, um, that's weirdly sexual", then you used your words wrong. Saying "that never happened" because that wasn't what you intended and then refusing to engage with anyone who tries to explain will get you exactly nowhere.

(Also, if you're regularly mentioning rape in a way nasty enough to get wiggled, you're going to have a credibility problem trying to claim that people are falsely accusing you of saying inappropriately sexual things in the posts that get through.)

 

i will say if there were actually rules on this forum rather than having mods individually be rule-producers on the spot, on an individual basis, it might be easier for the mods to do their job.

 

no, they don’t have sexual connotations to people outside of the bdsm community.

 

I guarantee you that people would overwhelmingly find accusations of "putting their posts in diapers out of a sadistic desire for submission" uncomfortably sexual my dude

 

this is out of my reality. it’s in your reality now, if you want to live with your lies go ahead but i’m not gonna be responsible for what you are creating. you create your reality. i stated what’s true. live in your own alternate universe with your fanfiction of me because i’m not a part of it. goodbye

 

People don't have to be in the bdsm community or personally interested in participating in bdsm to have picked up on the connotations. Speaking from experience here.

 

Like, irrespective of whether or not you're into kink, those words have taken up a common colloquial connotation that implies sexuality, especially when used in concert like that.

 

that’s an incredibly online thing to say and i know several people who i can screenshot this and laugh at with

 

interesting fanfiction? i’m just laughing dude. you’re so far off the mark

 

Wait until they find out how words get their meaning, because they're pretty much the best example in nature of people "creating reality"

 

i’m just emotionally detached at this point

 

Fuck dude, TERF and co might laugh at me and my degree. I am trembling in my boots.

Like legit, this is just putting your fingers and going lalala, but in text version. I'd say that I could print out your posts and laugh at them with my professors, but it'd be a waste of their time.