i was drunk and was like, a single millimeter away from dropping the DREADED FEELINGS WORD to my so tonight. In a really obvious way. And this isn't the first time I've kind of considered saying it but haven't had the mood (or the balls, maybe) right to admit it. What is a feeling and can I eat it aka please help me stop panicking and maybe figure out how to say it in a not-inebriated way?
I don't think anything bad will happen if you just say the feelings to your so. I kind of accidentally blurted it out to my bf and he said the things like 3 days into the relationship and it wasn't too awkward in either case!
I have several friends who treat The Word as a very serious thing. I use The Word pretty much instantly as soon as I feel that way, around both friends and partners, platonically and romantically, because if I feel it why wouldn't I say it??? You would know better than us whether your SO is likely to feel about feelings, I think, but just based on personal opinion, I have no idea what the harm in telling them is.
Well it was really obvious that was the word I was gonna say, and he indicated in the middle of my inebriated flailing about the fact that I almost said it that he would probably reciprocate and we've already said things along those lines to each other, but not the actual word. And I know treat it more seriously than most people, but it's just, been a really long time since I've gotten to the point where I consider saying that to someone. So it's probably more how do I get over my own anxiety about it because I am honestly my own worst enemy when it comes to this sort of thing.
Ah ok, that is kinda hard, I just got to a point where I really felt it and so I just blurted it out. But after the first time I find t is easier to say again!
I honestly just tell everyone i love them at all times i told my boyfriend i loved him BEFORE we started dating the best thing to do is probs just say it
