I'm over 60, retired, and live out in the country in the (US) mountain West. I was a professor before retirement. After many years as a socially awkward male, I find I find I prefer to imagine myself as female. But mostly I have just never really got my head around gender at all. And as I am now solitary for many days at a stretch, it doesn't really matter. For brain stuff, I am also discovering late that a lot was going on under the surface. I have at least some markers for depression, ADHD and the autism spectrum, but have never gotten a diagnosis, and am now mostly quite comfortable living off by myself. It is both startling and comforting to so often find in the posts of this forum that I share odd bits of behavior with you I have never met.
