I have this pretty bad habit of when I see some problem, I want to fix it. But also, I want to be the one to fix it. Recently a friend had a problem and someone helped him out... and I got jealous that I wasn't able to be the one who was there to help him. A similar thing happened with a different friend, only this time it was "have a friendly conversation". Someone started to talk with her and I got really jealous that I wasn't the one talking to her. It was hard for me to not barge in and be all "hey how are you hello I'm here talk to me!" I think it's starting to become a problem. Does someone have some advice?