given i'm planning for some pretty big stuff soon, i am reaching out for some help ™ to make the most out of it. this list will probably be updated continually in the future and also because if i made a thread for every single one of the bolded stuff it'd be too mUCH. bolded is what most important rn -- getting my first job, how to resume -- how to build up savings and budget money -- insurance and taxes, how does they work? -- getting tested for ptsd, autism, etc, how to bring it up with therapist / school counselor -- getting back into therapy, mainly look at abuse thread, how do i bring up my problems -- if, worse case scenario, i have to stay here until im 18, how do i move out -- how to apply for disability, or if i should -- asexual/??romantic, how do i do romantic relationships -- how do i general relationships? -- how do i apply for colleges, should i, what other options are there any other tidbit things you guys can think of Spoiler: abuse stuff also, for any abuse advice, please redirect that to my abuse thread or PM me. here's some things i need help with: reporting the abuse, what's the best way to do it? how should i phrase my documentation, so that people won't roll their eyes at the tumblrisms? how do i mention my brother without them dragging him into it? what should i do if my dad or his girlfriend brings up my gender identity as a way of proving i'm 'messed up in the head'? Spoiler: talk about disordered eating i have an eating disorder i've been struggling with from a very, very early age. i want to break out of it, but my dad provides very little for me and mainly gives me my two meals so i'm easier to care for. are there any light foods you can recommend i should start out with? i tried a peach and an apple before, but i got very sick and light-headed.
