Reporting the mods

she's going to interpret that as a dismissal of the fact that she experiences distress when spock talks to her.

it is recognized that she experiences distress. the distress she feels does not mean spock has to stop talking to her. spock is correcting misinformation. athol might find this process distressing because it makes her Feel Bad, but it's not a thing she gets to control.

 

Popping in to say, I’m really impressed with all of you guys and your patience? Resolve? Something in continuing to try to talk to this person.

I would’ve given up forever ago, so proud of y’all for try to continue to fix things/steer it in the right direction

 

Yo if you're going to snipe at me from behind an ignore from here on out can you please use they/them pronouns, I'm not a dude, kthx

 

put the thread on ignore and turn off your notifications you cant force anyone else to stop posting especially when you keep responding the only way to make it stop is to walk away so use the tools that are available to you

 

Oh yes, I know. I was not aiming the latter half of my reply at you, my bad. Part of accommodating her desire to not be spoken too directly is it means communication gets a little more muddled with others, but I was aiming that part at her because like.

I mean we have enough data at this point for me to clearly extrapolate how she was gonna catastrophize that in a disingenuous way, and was nipping it in the bud.

 

Quoting for emphasis

 

Thank you both, these were much more elegant ways of saying what I was trying to get at wrt antagonism vs enforcing boundaries.

 

Bolded for emphasis. Ha-fucking-ha. Pot, calling the kettle black.

You don't get to demand shit all from anyone after your actions beyond being treated with some human decency without doing some giving of your own. At least not with me, and I image not with a lot of other people. Because here's the thing-- I don't trust that you aren't saying vicious, horrific shit about me behind my back (and good luck, if you are, because I'll just laugh in your damn face, I guarantee that; you don't intimidate or scare me) the way you try to do to Spock, so I don't plan to give you much of the benefit of the doubt anymore.

We are hell bent on not listening? Get your head out of your ass-- it's the other way around, and this is frankly insulting on top of just laughable.

EDIT: Edited for errors and clarity.

 

A lot of stuff could be attributed to pickle-brain. The rest could be attributedd to some inability to Get It which that stupid donkey thinks has been brought up before.

Athol is also pretty low on spoons and doesn't know why hoarder-guy won't return her phonecalls. Things are pretty hopeless, but what do you do when your best isn't good enough?

Getting tired.

 

Please take a hike, Snitch. You also have the power to stop adding fuel to the fire and drowning out the helpfule stuff.

 

Too fucking much.

 

you ignored things when they were on the same page, how would even that make any difference at this point when it didn't before considering you don't read posts to begin with?

 

I need things to happen slower.

 

Blame shifting, again. Good god. Grow up and stop it already. "Wah wah, they're pointing out things I don't like and make me Feel Bad and so Snitch is responsible for how I respond to that". No. No. NO.

And who's fault is that? Hint, yours.

Things will happen slower when you stop adding fuel to the fire.

People here are very fucking through with letting your shit slide anymore than it already has. You owe Spock an apology, you of Kathy an Apology, you owe me an apology-- you owe fucking everyone an apology. And yes. I do mean owe.