Reporting the mods

Speaking of important stuff getting wiggled... Athol Magarac, Nov 17, 2018 at 5:43 PM

 

Stop lying when I wasn't? Stop talking about her when she's just going to assume it's about her anyway?

 

The words you have tangibly actually used by typing them out with your fingers and hitting submit on this forum when talking about Spock, that she has documented, have been lies and misrepresentations.

You are also projecting your own behaviors onto Spock. Spock is not invested in you to the point of holding a grudge. Spock has repeatedly said that she would like this all to stop.

Sometimes you have thought you weren't talking about Spock, because you keep conflating the mods into a homogeneous mass of authority you perceive as unfairly discriminating against you, but you were.

If you can explain that you understand that your threats, insults, and sundry attempts at causing harm to Spock were bad regardless of how you felt about them or what your reasons where, and apologize for trying to cause harm, and then stop talking about Spock?

Spock will stop talking to you!

 

Yo if you're worried about that last part being an issue try being more clear about who you're talking about. Or what you're talking about.

Someone who might not have been you, I suck at keeping track, said that they disliked vagueing, and at one point you said something rude that seemed to be about Spock, but you later clarified that it was about Neshomeh.

You could try clarifying that in post. Put it under a spoiler if you want.

If you really want people to cut down on the assumptions it would go a long way for that.

 

Yeah, I'm not being unfairly discriminated against, I just found another thread where another user had a similar issue. It happens all the time.

Look. Spock, there have been misunderstandings on both sides. If we could just clear them up as they become relevant, that would be great. I'm sorry about threatening to show you how much you were hurting me.

 

Not an appropriate apology.
Here's how to have made than an appropriate apology:

"I'm sorry about threatening you."

 

I'm sorry about threatening you @spockandawe

 

If that was at my post, shit, sorry about that.

 

Yeah, sorry for vauging. It was more too lazy to look it up at the moment, but it worked out.

 

If Spock was threatening or sexually harassing you in response to what you say about her, that would also be completely unacceptable.


It's not that you respond to her or communicate your feelings, it's how you do it that's a problem.


(edit: spelling)

 

That came later. At one point, I was just reading their tone as incredibly hostile and I wanted them to stop talking directly to me.

 

This is something that has been brought up numerous times: Spock would have stopped talking to you if you had stopped talking about her. You did not stop talking about her.


She has a right to talk about events she was involved in, if you are also talking about those events. Just like you are able to dispute her version of events, she can dispute yours.



(There was also some discussion about still interacting with you in a mod capacity, I don't remember what conclusion if any was reached about that.)

 

Also, more importantly: You had other options besides threatening and sexually harassing Spock.



What you did to get her to stop talking to you was not justified, or acceptable.

 

Like what, exactly? They could have stopped interacting with me, especially when I was talking about a different mod.

 

And also; plain didn't work and actively made it worse for you.