so your left hand goes over their hip and around to the butt (/upper leg ish, under their weight) and the right hand is higher holding their upper...
which one is the butt hand?
-- oh, so the right hand to be working with is the neck/shoulder hand if you gotta do something like that!
well, that's a very vivid image. appreciated. I go forth to write
YEAH that's the image I'm going for. weight on the hip, head on the shoulder. it's sorta unwieldy with two adults and would get tiring fast, but...
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