breakup: bleh

Discussion in 'General Advice' started by gills, Mar 24, 2016.

  1. Petra

    Petra space case

    Are you able to just block him? Cut him off from what he's getting off on?
     
  2. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

    Oh my god. Yes, please, block him. Or just walk away from your computer, he's being completely out of line.
     
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  3. WithAnH

    WithAnH Space nerd

    Can you step away? Like, saying "I can't deal with this right now" and hanging up/logging off is something you're allowed to do and probably the best thing you can do right now.

    ETA: just to be perfectly clear, in light of your post upthread, I'm not irritated or angry with you. I know this is really hard for you and I just want you to be healthy and safe.
     
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  4. gills

    gills dead

    if he calls me 'darling' one mroe time im going to throw up
     
  5. Petra

    Petra space case

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  6. esotericPrognosticator

    esotericPrognosticator still really excited about kobolds tbqh

    okay what the actual fuck that's not okay if you didn't discuss it beforehand
    the getting off I mean
     
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  7. gills

    gills dead

    sharks are so good.
     
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  8. Petra

    Petra space case

    In class so can't grab a ton more yet. Gimme an hour and I will hella shark pic dump, okay?

    There are apparently very tiny sharks that bioluminesce and I wish i could find good pics of them
     
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  9. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

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    Newlyread Killer Queen

  11. gills

    gills dead

    welp thats it. hes blocked me on everything. thats the end of that.
     
  12. Petra

    Petra space case

    It glows!!

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    ^This one is a smalleye pygmy shark.
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    ^Smol!
     
  13. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

    I know it doesn't feel like it now but this is a good thing. Block him as well so when he changes his mind and comes to pick a fight with you to get his jollies, he meets a brick wall.
     
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  14. gills

    gills dead

    he compared me to his ex, told me im selfish, uncaring, manipulative, a failure, and have my head stuck up my own ass.
     
  15. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

    He's wrong.
     
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  16. gills

    gills dead

    how can you know that?
     
  17. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

    Because even if I don't know you or him very well, I know patterns of manipulation, and I know cruelty.
     
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  18. gills

    gills dead

    i yelled at him a lot just now. i told him he could go jerk himself off over my tears since thats what he wants to do. thats a really terrible thing to say.
     
  19. Petra

    Petra space case

    And - you really don't strike me as uncaring. You care so much! You spent so much time defending him to us. You didn't have to. He'd never have known. You care. And he knows you care.
     
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  20. Newlyread

    Newlyread Killer Queen

    Nothing you've done justifies how he's treated you. Nothing. Even that is a drop in the bucket compared to his behavior.
     
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