can y'all get around to modding my posts through quicker please

The bullet points in my little list can all be traced back to actual posts, at least some of which are in the wiggler and shouldn't be hard to find.

I will say that it's basically impossible to have this conversation without any specifics at all being referenced. And I'm not going to take time out of a busy day to watch some rando's youtube video when the material point is that you're accusing people of gaslighting you. Your post would have been better spent saying 'I feel gaslit about X', and we'd be in the same conversational position with significantly less confusion and anbiguity.

 

you may find it useful to know that doing this doesn't make people think, "oh no, he thinks we're abusive? better do what he says!!"

it makes people think, "what a passive-aggressive dick."

 

That's cool. Nobody accused you of manipulating anything. There's only like five short posts between the video and your latest response.

You provided information and various people 1) disagreed with your attempted point and 2) described how your approach undermined your attempt to make that point.

 

I'm a fan of conversations having actual continuity, so after a week of pause, this discussion has apparently resumed in the intent vs. impact & gaslighting thread in ITA. I'm very much not a fan of the implications of 'are you guys abusing me tho' that comes packaged with this relocation, and since it's the running anniversary of the Athol nightmare, I'm pursuing maximum clarity from the very start this time.