No one is forcing you to respond immediately. You are free to take that hour and check things over. You can even post in the thread to the effect of "hey I wanna reevaluate the situation for a bit so I might not respond for some amount of time while I try to figure things out". The thread's 9 pages long dude, you could reread the entire thing in a reasonable amount of time. ... Yeah that is actually because a negative snuck in where it wasn't supposed to go, I will edit the post. I meant to say "A forum labeled "Group Hug" will be assumed to be an emotional space" and ask that if you have someone other than yourself who was under the impression that it is NOT, they please come forward. I did go back and I have in fact misremembered. You did not accuse LT of lying within the first page. You still came into the thread in a way that gave the impression you were just going to yell at LT about how wrong she is. In the future it might help to try and phrase things more gently if you are actually interested in what made someone say these things. I would like to know what you thought you were going to accomplish by talking about the things LT said, and about LT, metaphorically on her front porch... when she was not interested in talking to you?