There was a lot of context for it on Seebs' blog, but they don't tag things much, so like it might be hard to find. There are links to the discord here, but I don't know if they expire or not? But you can ask for a link there if you want. It's not a secret or anything :)
I do think you're transferring issues you've had in other disagreements elsewhere to this one, and it's not just you doing that either.
(ahh I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to rate that. My finger must have slipped on my phone or something?? I'm sorry)
you could ask a mod to move it into one of the limited subforums like Howling Into The Caring Void? then itd be just you and the mods. or even the Pear Wriggler if you wanted to vent without mods interfering.
there is now one singular rule but lots of guidelines and such to better explain it there was a banner thing that asked you to agree to it to access the private forums and maybe some other stuff a while back unless they changed it i think some people can be invited into a wriggled thread in case you wanted it limited. you'd have to ask a mod long and short of it is you sound like you aren't having a good time right now so some self care might be the most helpful right now, whether thats taking a break from kintsugi or just going to get some food/water/sleep for a while. i hope you feel better
Hm. I do not feel safe revealing any vulnerability on this forum when I know a member who watches me supports dogpiling as an actual corrective method (especially since dogpiling is the greater part of what makes tumblr unusable for many, and is the main tactic of antis). This is a personal thought - filed somewhere where it is free of discourse.
I'm that video of Taako where he talks about how the people he trusts are 'nothing and no one'. I'm going to find it.
(vague/not about anyone on the forums) to talk about how someone 'split on you permanently' is tbqh assuming a lot about their mental state just bc you know they have a mental health issue i didn't split on you i reasonably hate you and devalued my own feelings on this for a long time bc i know i can split on people (which is why i... mostly... don't talk to people when i'm upset) i have a complicated relationship with you and feel disgust about what kind of person you are a lot of the time. it is not 'splitting'. it is not 'permanently splitting'. it is just hatred for you being a shitty person and also pity because i understand why you are a shitty person. no splitting required.
tbqh I found phillip pullman's views on religion interesting bc despite people painting him a certain way the dude is clearly heavily invested in religion and loves reading about it. People make him an evil atheist strawman but he's not so bad. Some of this thoughts are actually inspiring, re: how religion is full of old stories. Wouldn't debate that bc atheists have a bad rep, but I have a soft spot a mile wide for Phillip Pullman.
