my mother AGAIN

Discussion in 'Braaaaiiiinnnns...' started by cantankerousAquarius, Apr 14, 2015.

  1. cantankerousAquarius

    cantankerousAquarius Acrasial Macrology

    i have a lot of anxiety right now and at the moment its bad enough to be affecting my health and my memory and sleep and food intake blah blah blah
    so yesterday i had the worst attack ive had in over a year and took the day off school to recuperate
    mom told me im stuck in the "i cants" and thats my problem
    what the fuck
     
    cantankerousAquarius, Apr 14, 2015 at 2:49 PM
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  2. wixbloom

    wixbloom artcute

    What the fuck indeed. That's a really unempathic thing to say even if it were true, which it isn't.
     
    wixbloom, Apr 14, 2015 at 3:37 PM
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  3. pixels

    pixels hiatus / only back to vent

    Here's the thing: you may be "I can't" because you literally cannot do the thing. It's actually healthy to have those boundaries and say "no, I can't do that." Having boundaries and knowing your limits is kind of the opposite of a problem, so your mom can fuck off.

    I'm glad you took a day off.
     
    pixels, Apr 15, 2015 at 12:48 PM
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  4. seebs

    seebs Benevolent Dictator

    I am pretty sure that is not actually the problem. I mean, it is a problem that can exist, and that happens, but... Doesn't seem a good fit here.
     
    seebs, Apr 15, 2015 at 2:55 PM
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