@Kijikun my original reply seemed kind of flip in the cold light of morning, so I edited it and put in a question for you about something you said. I'm really curious about it. I didn't mean to be flip, I just don't know how to respond to things sometimes so I take the one thing that seems least controversial.
http://www.my-lolita-dress.com/harajuku-green-leaf-round-collar-lolita-t-shirt-fkdu-15 speaking of WTF things to find on lolita sites...
Hello, my name is mericorn, and when I was 14 I wanted to wear lolita fashion more than anything. Because of lolita fashion, I almost learned to sew, but didn't. I still admire lolita and like to talk about it but don't think I can justify spending money on it when I currently tend towards button down shirts, blazers, and menswear. And need professional clothes. Still, I love looking at it and imagining myself wearing it.
man it's been fucking forever since anyone posted in this thread but I just wanted to say that guess what? I have my own money and apartment and can wear lolita whenever I want now! still working on my collection but I have several very cute dresses and skirts :)
I need to wear ruffles again but i've had a LOT of high pain, high masc days in the last like year, and nowhere to go to so i've not touched any of mine in ages fhbhdkbfhd