Reporting the mods

For folks with unreality issues, this is in reference to a different wiggled post from a different thread about a different topic, where I made the mistake of engaging, more than once, to help with why the post was wiggled, and what might help with the problem in the future.

Eta: my phrasing is a little unclear, sorry. For clarity, she wasn't called delusional at any point in that conversation. The word was in there, and she's mockingly quoting one of my posts, but nobody in that thread applied the word to her.

 

The whole thing is so sarcastic that basically... you don't

 

"And then I was like 'oh jeez, that's me'"

(It's too bad that's still not what happened. Repeating falsehoods doesn't ACTUALLY make them true)

 

Oh, haha, no that was definitely abusive behavior.

I was mistaken on who you were referring to, probably because you make NO EFFORT to be clear about who you're talking about. And it's still not what happened, but hey. I got your long-term grudge sniping campaigns mixed up, because calling the ppc liars makes... no sense? no sense.

 

Ugh, okay, flow interrupted for another wiggled post, because I'm-less-than-human isn't an okay tactic. Which she's been warned about a LOT of times before now, including last night.

Her point:

Other people can set boundaries where she's wrong for violating them, but it feels like she can't set boundaries where other people are wrong for violating them.

I think the main issue is that she's not distinguishing contexts and what are reasonable boundaries and what aren't, but this part of the conversation never seems to progress past that last paragraph's point.

 

Yes, I think you have it exactly right. I'm out at lunch, but I was trying to figure iut the right way to phrase what felt suspicious about that. The definition of "lie" is something she keeps circling back around to with me, and it's not all that relevant to the ppc grudge.

I'm not writing an essay about how how boundaries work, because she ignores those posts and I'm not wasting the effort, but it's a persistent problem.

 

I know this isn't the first time you've heard this

But just imagine

Imagine how much easier conversation would be

For everyone

You included

If you just bothered to mention what you're talking about instead of assuming people can read your mind.

 

Well, is it ever provided as a reason you're being wiggled?

Lots of confusing things from you get approved. Things get wiggled for having something clearly inappropriate in them. This might, might have helped in one or two cases, but it is absolutely not one of the major drivers

 

It depends on the posts! This is not a negotiation. This is a way for you to improve your communication. Which, if the things you are communicating are things that we wouldn't wiggle, will go through.