So we apparently somehow never thought to actually mention this, but a while back we changed That Could Have Gone Better to be post-moderated in general, because we kept having problems with people being unsure who was or wasn't invited to threads, or when it was okay to jump in, and we thought "what if we applied the filter preemptively". And in some parallel universe, we also thought to mention the thing, rather than having several separate people ping us to say "hey wait did i screw up and end up on post moderation?" To clarify: If you were actually being put on post moderation, you'd be told directly. And no, you didn't screw up, we did. Sorry.