I can't @ you, ids, because of how you've done your name, but this conversation is talking about all of the relevant elements of cT's behavior including how long it's been going on. If you want to have a discussion about abuse recovery rhetoric, please take it outside. The subforum "Is This Abuse?" would be a good place for that. [Edit: whoops, mods came to a decision while I was responding.] This thread is being temporarily closed for clean up and a possible move. It will not stay closed and people will be able to continue the discussion shortly.