posted some art that had non-sexual nudity in it, not even showin any genitals, was immediately yelled @ by several adult mods, one for not considerin the 'safety of me and other minors'... anyway i feel p disgusting now but ive left the Hell Server and thats probably the best decision creeps
Idk which continent is nearest your home patch of ocean, but here in the US there is a lot of prudery over even non-sexual nudity, so I'm not surprised by that. Unfortunately there may even be legitimate legal concerns, depending on where the server is based and where their users are coming from. All of which sucks and shouldn't have to be your concern, but yeah, that's a thing that happens.
yeah, i guess i could just have dif standards for what actually constitues Nsfw (tm)... i just felt that adults going after me as a minor for it like that made me feel p gross, esp w/o tryin to negotiate/soften it at all ;;; :/
tbh i can't fully understand the experience of feeling gross, but i won't ask you to elaborate since it sounds like dwelling on that feeling would be unpleasant and maybe harmful. I can appreciate that they made you feel bad in some signiicant way, and that definitely sucks!
https://thenewinquiry.com/essays/hot-allostatic-load/ its mostly abt trans fem ppl which im not but. this speaks 2 me a lot abt tumblr and older irl abuse too,, hhh
I often have the overwhelming physical sensation of having a dead person in my life, someone as close as an identical twin. The sensation is of me being the only one still alive after a terrible accident, lingering like an unshriven thing. The inability to share stigma is even worse than the original act of violation. The greater part of a wound is its inability to heal.
One reason it took me so long to talk about my experiences was that I associated being able to speak against abuse with being an abuser. Because every abuser throughout my life was so good at being believed, I thought that being believed was the exclusive domain of abusers. fuck
id be triggered if that sheer level of sudden angersplosion wasnt just so overdone as 2 b hilarious take a chill pill your honor
Hey Feffie, just wanted to say I like the cuttlefish but they can throw people off the course of the convo or come off as too cutesy when people are mad. Next time maybe post in your thread?
i literally could not care less abt bein told cuttles dont help but when u react like that i have every right 2 be angry fuck off
Yeah. People are more possessive over their vent threads, I was about to poke you in PMs when that went down. Just wanted to make sure you were chill and knew that I appreciate the thought even if the execution didn't help some people.
COULD YOU sTOP THAT? PER MY POLITE FUCKING REQUEST I'M ASKING YOU TO REsPECT MY VERY IMPORTANT BOUNDARIEs AND BE A NICE CONsIDERATE PERSON OR I'LL FUCKING sLAP YOU.
imagine blowing up that hard on a stranger over a fish and still having people consider you in the right need me social capital like that
im never gettin an apology for that am i gotta love the principle of 'if you angered me whatever i do to trigger you is your fault' like that aint abusive as hell