Wait I think I realized a thing with my issue I wasn't able to word earlier. I find it crossing a line when we stop acting appropriately to the characters involved and instead are using our own personal morals to attempt to keep someone entirely silent as a particular character. So basically the clear line between character and person has been breached entirely and a moral crusade has begun. I've seen this happen with Amporas in the past, and it's a behavior that bothers me a lot. Not here. Just elsewhere I've seen it occur.