It pisses me off that people are so quick to judge other peoples' grief. Some people respond to tragedy stoically. Some people have been raised to not show things like that to outsiders. Some people are in shock and can't accept it yet. Making a big fucking production of it is the fakest thing possible and is what's offensive. And witnessed, for all the other crap.
witnessed and witnessing. and hugs, if you would like them. i'm so sorry for your loss. you've been on my mind for the past few days and you'll continue to be. sending prayers for comfort in whatever shape you and yours need.
