siiiiiiiiiiiiiigh someday someone will explain the difference between us

yeah i think it really depends on what you're seeing

i personally havent seen a lot of the "well that's unreasonable" but that doesnt mean it doesn't happen, im sure it does. however a lot of the context-less "dont reblog unless you're actually bpd" stuff doesn't specify that's it's specifically referring to the "well that's unreasonable crowd" and i do feel targeted by it because i dont have a profesional dx even though i really really get the "my fp left me with a read recipt and now i want to die" feeling

 

I mean, I can and have taken it as a joke from people with and without BPD, my friends/fp mainly, but. Yeah. It being said as in "well just CHOOSE not to feel like that, you manipulative bitch" seems to be the sentiment I see a lot?? And I've gotten that before from my therapist, oddly enough. (She's gotten better, I'm just her first ever BPD client so we're both learning how that goes and is treated, so lmfao w/e)

But anyway, yeah. I think we're definitely seeing different sentiment.